Summary: In Italian, love expressions are nuanced. Learn when to use Ti amo (romantic love) versus Ti voglio bene (affectionate love), plus common related phrases.
Saying “I love you” might be straightforward in English, but in Italian it’s more nuanced—and often feels even more romantic.
There are two main ways to express love in Italian, and which one you choose depends on the kind of love you’re talking about.
1. Ti amo — Romantic Love
This is probably the phrase you’re looking for. Ti amo (TEE AH-mo) is reserved for deep, passionate love. You say this to a lover, partner, or spouse—the person you’re in love with.
You wouldn’t use Ti amo with your best friend or your mom, unless you’re okay with making things a little awkward.
Ti amo con tutto il mio cuore.
2. Ti voglio bene — Affectionate Love
This one can be tricky for English speakers. Ti voglio bene (TEE vol-YO BEH-neh) literally means “I want good for you,” but in practice it’s a warm, heartfelt way of telling someone you love and care about them deeply.
It’s the expression you’d use with:
- Immediate family members
- Close relatives
- Your children
It’s affectionate and tender, but not romantic.
Ti voglio bene, mamma.
Bonus: Other Italian Love Phrases
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Sono innamorato/a di te — I’m in love with you
(innamorato if male, innamorata if female) -
Mi manchi — I miss you
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Sei il mio amore — You are my love
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Amore mio — My love (a very popular term of endearment)
Final Tip
Italians don’t just say the words—they feel them. Intonation, eye contact, and facial expressions all matter. If you’re going to say Ti amo, mean it.
Say it slowly. Look them in the eye. Let it sink in.
Because in Italian, love isn’t just spoken—it’s truly felt.
